Financial Cuckolding



“Pay me bitch!”

It’s the familiar cry of the gold-digging wench directed at the poor bastard who empties his wallet because the humiliation is sexually arousing.

Hard to swallow?

It’s the reality for a subset of cuckolds who cash out to get off. One of the more rare forms of the lifestyle, known as financial cuckolding.

Take for example Ms. Sabina Erotica, whose website is a living monument to just how far some women will go to cash in on the submissive nature of the willing cuckold. The picture below is found on her homepage.


This gracious mistress allows men to donate anywhere from $25 to $1,000 for the privilege of being verbally humiliated over the phone.  Don’t feel like talking?

No worries.  Sabina allows you to pay anywhere from $5 to $50 to listen to pre-recorded messages of how she financially dominates men.

No, I’m not kidding.

And while there is no current data as to the extent of this sub-fetish, a quick jaunt on Twitter reveals no shortage of women willing to take your money….because you deserve to pay them, or so they claim.

I found at least two dozen women, ranging in age from 18 to 50 who are making a decent living via financial domination.  One woman this morning, was gloating over the $1,500 she procured in a single day.

Now I can see a wealthy individual engaging this fetish without too much concern.  He’s got the extra dough to throw at it, not unlike someone who engaged in an expensive hobby, but what about cuckolds with an average income?

This can be an expensive, and potentially devastating fetish.

So what’s the story behind the bizarre phenomenon of financial cuckolding?

In a previous post on the Psychology of Cuckoldry, I talked about the reasons that men are drawn to the fetish and what it provides them, both sexually and mentally.

The short and sweet of it is that most cuckolds have a low self-esteem, at least in the sexual arena and they eroticize it so that humiliation becomes intensely sexually arousing. It’s not a far leap to see how this would extend into the arena of financial cuckolding as well.

There are several scenarios were this would be plausible.

Number one. If a guy genuinely wants to be cuckolded, or at least hear a woman speaking to him as if he were a cuckold, and he doesn’t have a current partner, then….you guessed it.

He pays for the privilege. I don’t see anything inherently wrong with this because people have been paying to get off since the invention of money. Phone sex, prostitutes, porn sites, you name it – you dish out the Benjamins to get what you want.

The second scenario is a little more complicated. Guys who find themselves on the masochistic end of the cuckold spectrum (see my previous post), become aroused via humiliation and domination.

If you think about it, shelling out your cash to someone you don’t know, so that they can tell you that you’re a small-dick loser, is pretty damn humiliating. And while most men might shudder at the thought, masochistic cuckolds are sprouting a boner and these women know it.

That’s the fuel for financial cuckolding.

So are these guys all fucked up and warped?

No. The things that turn them on are just different.  There are A LOT of closet freaks out there – golden showers, scat play, dressing like animals, and the list goes on.

We all have a unique psychological make-up that contributes to our sexuality. Different strokes for different folks, yeah?

What about the women making bank off this fantasy?

Can you blame them? If men there was a subset of women who got off on giving them money so that they could talk dirty to them, would they do it?

That would be the longest line of men in world history. So while the idea may seem bizarre and even predatory, it’s actually a simple case of supply and demand. Guys want it and there are women who will give it to them.

So no, I don’t see any horrendous demons anywhere so long as everything is consensual.

So there you have it, a brief overview and look into the world of financial cuckolding,

Oh, and just for the record guys, if you want to throw money at me, I’ll hit the falsetto voice and bag on you all day long.

Just sayin…..


Ben Steel Founder of Cuckold Relationship
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